I now understand why there is Saturday morning television (okay – now it is Netflix versus Saturday morning cartoons when I was a kid). Our kids come bounding into to our room this morning at 6:40am, letting us know that it was time to get up. They crawl into bed next us and we hope for a snuggle. They have other ideas in mind including playing games that involved burrowing down under our sheets and jumping on each other and us. Where.did.sleeping.in.go? The solution so I could wake up slowly, have a lazy morning and enjoy my coffee-put them in front of Netflix for some Saturday morning television.
Why do I sit here, in bed, drinking my coffee with parental guilt? I should be relaxing, sippping my coffee and enjoying the few moments of peace and quiet before our crazy day filled with soccer games, bike riding, and house-packing commences. Instead, guilt. I should be out there, playing with my kids, reading them books, coming up with art projects. Instead, I am allowing the television to act as my babysitter. Good parenting, right?
I remember Saturday morning cartoons as a kid fondly though. After a long week of school, playing with my friends and homework, waking up to watch some Saturday cartoons was something to look forward to. Did it scar me? No. I recognize it is all about perspective. Today, “screen time” is so prolific for our kids. We try desprately to adhere to the no more than two hours a day, but in the land where we look at our iPhones and iPads for news, texting, reading a book, blogging and Facebook it is really hard to enforce. Often times, what they do on our screens are play cool, educational games. Is that bad? or rationalization?
What is the balance? The downside of it all is that television whether it be on Saturday or not, too much screen time makes our kids crazy. At some point, they become whiny and demanding, wanting more. We hold the line, and it becomes a battle that neither one of us want. Jon and I look at each other and say, we have crossed the line.
Anyone out there have the silver bullet? If so, please share. For now, I am laying in bed listening to the Octonauts in the background, blogging and drinking coffee.